Conscious Choice: Freedom in Relationships

February 2008 | Starwatch

Freedom in Relationships

by James Jarvis, M.A.

The Aquarian influence this month (Sun, New Moon, Mercury and Venus) pushes you toward greater authenticity in your relationships with others. Does your need for independence threaten your partner? Do you find that you have to stifle your own self-expression with friends in order to keep the peace? Breakthroughs in your relationships will occur when you tell the truth and express your deeper, authentic self.

With Venus in Capricorn sextile Uranus in Pisces 2/5–7, the focus is on how much freedom you need in relationships. True freedom is created by telling the truth about your needs for independence and issues around abandonment.

The new moon at 17 degrees Aquarius on 2/6 (8:45 a.m.) challenges you to detach from your relationship dramas without abandoning your partner or yourself. This requires learning how to maintain your own sense of personal autonomy while being emotionally present to the needs and desires of others.

Venus in Aquarius 2/17–3/11 helps you envision a new paradigm of relationship that is based on interdependence and freedom rather than codependence. Let Venus in Aquarius help open your heart to greater intimacy and authenticity in all of your relationships.

With Mercury in Aquarius, retrograde since 1/28, going direct 2/18 (7:50 p.m.), the emphasis is on opening your mind to new possibilities and insights. Be willing to act on any “illuminations” or intuitive insights that you received during the retrograde period.

The Sun entering the sign of Pisces on 2/18 at 11:15 p.m. helps us to surrender the personal sense of “I” to allow for integration into the whole. Your job this month is to learn the value of surrender and to open your consciousness so that you can transcend your perception of separateness.

The full moon at 1 degree Virgo 2/20 (8:31 p.m.) helps you to clarify what your body needs to support your emotional health. Use the positive qualities of Virgo, discernment and discrimination, to put your life and daily routine (exercise, nutrition and diet) into increasingly coherent order.

For Sun, Moon and Rising Signs

Aries 3/21–4/20
Career ambition is high right now and you are more than “raring” to go. The big question is what are you doing it all for? If you can find a purpose that transcends your own needs, your success is guaranteed!

Taurus 4/21–5/21
Deeper understanding of your core values is at hand. Perhaps you’re feeling more compassionate and open hearted. Personal healing occurs as you discover ways of serving those who are less fortunate.

Gemini 5/22–6/20
Try to engage the right side of the brain more through visualization, dream work and free drawing. This will help you gain insight into
career issues. Thinking alone won’t help.

Cancer 6/21–7/20
You may be feeling overwhelmed, over-stimulated and way too busy. Try to minimize input and maximize nurturing, self care. Take some time out to check in with how you are truly feeling.

Leo 7/21–8/22
Your outgoing and extroverted nature is highlighted this month. You are being asked to step more fully into the limelight. The challenge is to give your creative gifts fully with the utmost of humility.

Virgo 8/23–9/22
The full moon in Virgo 2/20 asks you to develop greater faith and trust in relationships. You don’t need to figure everything out in advance. Go with the flow and trust that everything is unfolding perfectly.

Libra 9/23–10/22
The inherent love of beauty is so key to who you are. This month it wants to be expressed through your inner or outer home. If you’ve wanted to bring serenity and beauty to either realm, now is the time.

Scorpio 10/23–11/21
You have enough ambition and drive for several people now. The challenge is to remember you don’t need to do it all by yourself. Even though very capable, you’re part of a larger plan that’s coming through you.

Sagittarius 11/22–12/20
Your ability to clearly see your highest vision is accentuated now. The challenge is to use the discriminating aspects of the mind to create a laserlike focus of concentration.

Capricorn 12/21–1/20
What are you passionate about in your life? Finding activities that you’re passionate about will seriously boost your energy now. It’s important to include fun in the equation too!

Aquarius 1/21–2/18
With the new moon in Aquarius on 2/6 your intuitive sense of what’s next is accelerated. Pay attention to ideas that speak to collective needs or future trends. And make sure to write them down!

Pisces 2/19–3/20
Intuitive perception is enhanced this month with Mercury and Neptune together. The key to benefiting from this planetary combination is allowing your imagination free rein. Meditation gives clarity as well.

James Jarvis, M.A., is a master astrologer, transpersonal counselor and professional life coach. To contact James, call toll-free (866) 454-8199 or e-mail: [click to e-mail] or visit www.lifeqwest.com

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